Whyshould there be a right age to start having sex? There are many reasons whyit’s good to delay having sex until the development of your brain has caught upwith that of your genitals.
Within the male high school community, having sex issomething they think they must have. There are many issues that affect youngpeople these days. One of these one in three sexually active people will havecontracted an STD. Eight to nine percent of adolescents use a condom always forSTD prevention and seventeen percent use a condom to prevent contraception.Condoms do offer more protection against those STD’s spread by fluids such asChlamydia, Gonorrhea and HIV. Condoms do however offer less protection forthose STD’s spread by skin-to-skin contact such as Herpes and Syphilis. The useof condoms in preventing contraception and STD’s is not as safe as choosing toabstain from sex altogether. Theearlier you have sex, the more likely you are to feel pushed into it.
Very fewparents decide to discuss the problem of having sex with their children. Theydo not think that this subject is worth talking about with their kids. Allparents should speak about friendship, affection, love, relations, sex,contraception, etc. When parents are not talking to kids, their children makemistakes, make wrong decisions and ruin their lives. When teens know aboutthese things, they will feel a lot safer. They know what to expect in life.They know about the consequences of unsafe sex and other problems relating tosex.
Of course, it is impossible to define the mostappropriate age for sex, because all children are different. Every young childhas his or her own tempo of physiological and psychological development. A 14-year-oldboy could be called a grownup person.
Consequently, he could start having sexfrom this young age. There are two different opinions about the appropriate agefor dating. The first party claims that teenagers must not date until they areat least 18. Such parents believe that their children must not waste time onsuch useless things. They ought to study, improve themselves and keep a longdistance between the representatives of the opposite sex.The second party believes that youngpeople can date starting from the age of 14.
Of course, no one speaks about anyclose relations. This idea is based on friendship between a girl and a boy.Young people should start communicating with the representatives of theopposite sex as soon as possible.