Nonverbal communication is unlike verbal communication in that it is universal throughout the world.
2. Nonverbal communication plays a key role in my relationship with my non- English speaking in-laws. However, not everything can be communicated through nonverbal functions. G. Maintaining Healthy Interpersonal Relationships 1 . There are many strategies for maintaining a healthy relationship, but some are harder to implement than others. 2.
Discuss the strategies learned in this course and how the have affected my relationship. H. Resolving Conflict 1 .There will always be disagreements between connected individuals, but it is how the disagreement is resolved that determines whether or not a relationship continues.
2. Some of the strategies mentioned in this course have helped me resolve conflicts with my wife, family members and co-workers. II. I have mentioned many aspects to interpersonal communication and how it affects my life on a daily basis.
Believe the skills I have acquired during this course have helped prepare me to improve my current and future relationships with others.Just by learning to become a better listener will go a long way in this process. IV.
Understanding how to improve your interpersonal communication with those that you are connected to can really improve your relationship and communication with that person. After reviewing these topics and appreciating how they affect my life, I am ready to use what have learned and improve my interpersonal communication. This paper, and this course, have opened my eyes up to the deficiencies I have as a communicator. I believe being a good communicator leads to a much happier life.Ramona Mat 5 May 2012 Interpersonal communication can be defined a number of ways, but it is usually described as communication between or among connected persons, or those in a close relationship. Over the past few weeks, have really been able to examine my own interpersonal communication between and among he people am connected to or have close relationships with. Prior to this course, I felt my interpersonal communication skills were above average and very effective.
However, I have discovered there are many ways I can improve my interpersonal communications and relationships with others.Through the exercises conducted during this course have realized that I need to work on my effective listening, perception of others and how my nonverbal cues can cause barriers to interpersonal communication. I will describe the barriers I have created and how have resolved them over the past few weeks. Understanding my own shortcomings in communication, and attempting to resolve them, has helped me improve my current and future relationships with other. As soon as this course started, I realized that there was a lot for me to learn. Monomaniac with many individuals at work and in my personal life.
I have always felt that my communications were clearly received. However, realized that each receiver of my communication is different. Joseph A. Devote explains that each person is unique; each person’s communications are unique (Devote 9). When at work I deal with many employees concerning various matters.
The employees typically come to me because they need help with a matter that am knowledgeable in. I can usually answer their questions quickly, and with great detail.The part I fail to consider is that the employee is not as knowledgeable as me, and may not understand some of the terms and processes I am referring to. And for fear of appearing to not understand, an employee will just agree with me and leave. That employee may leave my office not fully understanding everything said. This miscommunication is completely my fault because of the way I present my message.
I have realized owe that employees are reluctant to give me feedback to the messages relay to them, or communicate their misunderstanding.After studying the elements of interpersonal communication, I see now that I must take extra Steps in communication to ensure that employees receive the information they are looking for in a manner which they understand it. I have done this by implementing some afterward messages to help provide some information prior to explaining my main message. I have also become aware of the context in which my communications are being delivered. There is a social- psychological dimension to my relationship with the employees. As the human resources manager, I am perceived as an authority figure.As stated in my journal, my co-workers tend to view me as the “policy police” (Student Journal 6-1 1).
Correcting my communication errors has helped me relate better with my co-workers, and has improved the manner in which they receive information from me. Do not really appreciate the way I am viewed by my co-workers. It has altered how I think of myself as person. My self-concept has always been that am a confident, responsible adult with high self-esteem (Student Journal 2-3). However, when I think about how am thought of at work, that confidence lessens. My co-worker’s images of me are important.My co- workers reveal their image of me through the way they react to my communications. Have become very self aware of their image, and have begun to work towards correcting this image.
As I stated in my journal, when I do get a chance to give an employee good news or help them in any way, I go above and beyond to ensure their satisfaction (Student Journal 6-1 1). Outside of work, I view myself as a person who loves interacting with people in a relaxed and positive manner. Through what I have learned in this course, am better equipped to improve my co-workers perception of me and my job.
The perception of a human resources manager is not always a positive one. My position is designed to be a resource for employees and managers to get help with recruiting, training, benefits, etc. However, one of the major responsibilities is employee relations. Employee relations may not always be positive situations. Typically, what gets the most attention from employees is the negative employee relation situations, such as terminations or discipline warnings. Because of this, some employees perception of the person that holds the position of human resources manager is someone who’s job it is to fire people.While this is partly true, it is just one function of the job. “When the bulk of an employee relations manager’s work is teaching supervisors and managers to administer discipline and effect negative employment actions, employees understandably feel that HRS function is not one of an employee advocate” (Mayhem).
So, the perception becomes that whoever is the human resources manager, regardless of the person, is not there to help. I believe that this is not a fair perception of me; however, am guilty of attaching unfair perceptions to people too. My wife is from Cuba, and when I first met her she ad a strong accent.Because of her accent viewed her as different. Had a perception of Spanish speaking individuals with accents. My perception was that they didn’t understand everything that was said to them in English and they were very naive to most things happening around them. Discovered through getting to know my wife and her Spanish speaking family that this perception is not true. My wife is one of the smartest people I know.
I have learned to check my perceptions when it comes to people from other cultures. What you think is true of someone, may actually be the farthest thing from the truth.The fact that my wife and come from different cultures actually strengthens are relationship. When tend to be very interested in each others cultures and way of doing things, but as time goes on in our relationship find that my listening skills have deteriorated when it comes to her. I love her, and what she says is important to me; however, I find myself tuning her out at times. She will be speaking but my mind will be on something else. Then later she will refer back to what she had told me and I will have no idea what she is talking about. This is completely my fault, and it does cause communications issues in our relationship.
That is why I have really concentrated on following the steps to effective listening to help me. I am much better now at receiving her messages through focusing my attention on her and avoiding distractions. This helps me understand and remember her communication so that can respond intelligently. I can see in her eyes that when she does have my full attention that she appreciates it very much. This one effort in our communications with each other has resulted in a much closer relationship. Now, just because am giving my full attention to the person speaking does to always mean I completely understand what they are saying.My in-laws and I have some language barriers to overcome when it come to communication.
My mother- and father-in-law do not speak English at all, and my Spanish is very limited. I have attempted to learn more Spanish, and have learned to follow their conversations better (Student Journal 5-9). My in-laws and I are still working on overcoming the language barriers that we have and our communications are getting better all the time. Communication with my non-English speaking family members is difficult but we are able to communicate through nonverbal cues. It can be pretty entertaining at times.An example would be when pick my son up from their house.
Need to know the last time he ate and had his diaper changed, but I will forget how to completely ask in Spanish. So will ask part of my question in Spanish, and the other part gets acted out. It becomes a weird game of charades. Both of us usually get a kick out of it. Nonverbal communication plays a key role in our relationship with each other. Now that I am used to it, I believe it has actually brought me closer to my in-laws. We have maintained a great relationship despite our communication differences.Maintaining relationships is not always the easiest thing to do, it takes a lot of effort.
I have been able to maintain the relationships I have with others for many different reasons. As Devote states, “The reasons for maintaining relationships are as numerous and as varied as the reasons for beginning them” (Devote 229). Specifically, my relationship with my wife has been maintained over the years because we still share the attraction to each other that helped develop our relationship.
We both love each other very much, and we communicate that continually. Our emotional attachment and commitment to one another grows more with time.We both have our reasons for making efforts to maintain our relationship, but above all we make each other happy. Even the best relationships will not be completely conflict free. There will always be disagreements be;en connected individuals, but it is how the disagreement is resolved that will determine whether or not a relationship will continue.
I am lucky in the sense that my wife and I do not have many conflicts. But when we do, I make sure it is handled appropriately. Neither of us want a disagreement to carry On for a long time, so both Of us make an effort to correct whatever is wrong.I try to resolve any conflict we may have in a positive way so that it does not have a lasting effect of our relationship. I find that collaborating with my wife and communicating with her in a calm manner allows us to listen to each other so that we understand each of our perspectives. For this to be effective, emotion over the issue must restrained. “People in conflict may have a variety of strong, and often negative emotions- anger, distrust, disappointment, frustration, confusion, worry, or fear.
These emotions often mask the substantive issues in dispute. ” (“International online training program on intractable conflict”).We always allow time for the emotion of the conflict to settle before we attempt to resolve. This has been a great approach for us and has ensured that we do not let conflict destroy our relationship. Have mentioned many aspects to interpersonal communication and how it affects my life on a daily basis. I believe the skills have acquired during this understanding how to improve your interpersonal communication with those thou are connected to can really improve your relationship and appreciating how they affect my life, I am ready to use what I have learned and improve my interpersonal communication.